Don't be fooled by the glamour of how something may appear. I often see posts on social media people appearing to be picture perfect. I also see people re-post those same posts with #goals or #couplegoals. no person is the same and no relationship is the same. I can tell you, my husband and I often get compliments about our relationship based on a post or a picture. We have been in a relationship for 19 years and married for 18 years of those years. People always hear the the number of years we are together and get impressed. What they don't see is the work that goes into keeping a marriage together. It takes determination and perseverance to over come obstacles as a couple.
what people see is the result of the work, but they do not see the work that we do on a daily basis to help our relationship to thrive. Be careful about comparing your life to others, we are all imperfect and on our own journeys. We all have work to do to get where we want to be. Don't compare your life to people's perfect posts on social media. We all have a choice to choose happiness and to seek after it. It is a daily process, don't give up on yourselves no matter what. You will have days where you will experience great days worth posting, and days where you don't feel great. However, through it all keep going, life is worth living. Enjoy the journey, learn and grow.
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